In a city where digital connections often outpace real ones, young Singaporeans are turning their focus towards genuine, in-real-life experiences. Whether it’s over music, shared meals, or creative pursuits, a growing number of communities are springing up to help youth connect, collaborate, and form meaningful friendships.
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A quiet quest for belonging
Singaporean youths are no strangers to loneliness. According to a recent survey by the Institute of Policy Studies (IPS), youths in Singapore aged 21–34 reported an average loneliness score of 5.53 on a three-item scale, which is higher than that of older age groups. Similarly, in its 2022 wave, a survey by the National Youth Council reported that a small but consistent share of youths had no close friends.
Taken together, these numbers point to a generational paradox. While today’s youths are digitally fluent and constantly connected, their social lives often lack depth and genuine companionship. This growing disconnection has created a clear need for spaces that foster social capital, enabling authentic friendships, sharing experiences, and rediscovering the value of in-person connection.
With that in mind, here are five of the most vibrant spaces to check out:
1. Birds of a feather flock together at Screaming Pigeons
Image credit: Screaming Pigeons official Instagram
For young women seeking a space to connect, create, and grow together, Screaming Pigeons has become something of a sanctuary. This girls-only collective hosts intimate gatherings that range from creative workshops about mental wellness and personal growth to themed movie nights and nature walks.
Contrary to the title of the community, the space is not about shouting to be heard, but about finding one’s voice among like-minded women who want to uplift one another. The energy here is raw, real, and refreshingly unfiltered, making it a place where friendships take flight.
Events take place across Singapore. Follow them on Instagram, join their Telegram channel, or check out Eventbrite to find out where the next hangout is taking place.
2. Conversations turn into Communities at FriendZone
Image credit: Friendzone official website
An initiative by Singapore’s National Youth Council, Friendzone undertakes a simple yet powerful mission: to help people form friendships beyond their usual social circles. Through facilitated conversations and curated events across neighbourhoods, Friendzone encourages young adults to move past small talk and into real dialogue about their hopes, challenges, and the communities they live in.
It is community-building with a heartbeat, living proof that authentic friendships can flourish, even among strangers. Check out the National Youth Council’s website or social channels to find out where the next event is held.
3. Singing your heart out at Saylah Studios
Image credit: Saylah Studios official Instagram
Tucked away in the city’s creative quarters, Saylah Studios is becoming the go-to spot for youth looking to unwind and connect through culture. The venue regularly hosts new artists, indie bands, as well as open-mic sessions, drawing in a crowd that appreciates music, art, and a good laugh.
Saylah isn’t just about performances. They host Saylah Socials as a gathering ground for themed trivia nights, sing-alongs, and even board game evenings. Whether you are belting out a tune or laughing over a wrong quiz answer, you’ll likely leave with a few new friends.
This versatile space is located at 180 Paya Lebar Rd, a short stroll from Tai Seng MRT Station.
4. Dining with strangers at Timeleft
Image credit: Timeleft official website
Imagine signing up for a dinner where you know no one at the table. That’s the magic behind Timeleft, a dining concept that connects strangers over curated meals and conversation starters. Each session is a leap into the unknown.
No screens, no distractions, just shared plates and stories. It has become a hit among young professionals and creatives who crave authentic social encounters in an age of algorithms. Many come for the novelty, but stay for the friendships that follow.
Sign up for their next dinner on their website or socials.
5. Out-of-the-box connections at The Red Box
Image credit: National Youth Council official website
You have probably seen its bright façade near Somerset MRT. The Red Box is a vibrant community hub run by the National Youth Council (NYC), designed as a gathering space for young people to connect, collaborate, and create change together.
Beyond its sleek event spaces and co-working corners, The Red Box frequently hosts youth dialogues, volunteering meet-ups and creative workshops that bring together individuals from all walks of life.
Whether you are joining a cause-based discussion, pitching a passion project, or simply popping in for an NYC community event, The Red Box embodies purposeful socialising spaces rooted in shared values and authentic connection. Hop on over to 113 Somerset Road for the next meet-up.
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A Generation Reconnecting
Life now often involves digital socialising, remote work, and fewer “water-cooler” opportunities, making spaces that actively create in-person meet-ups in demand. From intimate circles to open community tables, Singapore’s youth are redefining how friendships begin. These spaces reflect a growing hunger for connection that transcends surface-level interactions.
If you have ever felt like your social circle has shrunk, or you simply crave genuine conversation beyond the screen, perhaps it’s time to explore one of these friendship-first spaces. Who knows, the next familiar face in your life could be waiting at the next table, open mic, or trivia night.
