Nicole Vulcan
This past weekend I packed up my bag and headed out for a ladies weekend in the city. No husbands, no kids, and no worries. It was glorious.
A few hours into the trip, however, the first talk of the kids entered the conversation. Because we were venturing out of town in order to leave our worries behind, the ladies and I instituted a rule: We each were allowed to mention our kids once during the trip. Beyond that, the kids were off limits! That helped us manage our guilt about leaving them behind, while at the same time leaving just a little bit of room for motherly love.
But in case that’s not enough for you to get through your trip without the kids, here are a few more tips.
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Give them something to look forward to
Before you go, order a fun movie your kids have been dying to see, invite Grandma to come for the weekend, or allow them to have a sleepover with a beloved friend. Knowing that your kids are having fun back home will take away some of the guilt.
Indulge in something you can’t do with the kids around
It might be hard to remember, but there are probably a few things you used to do that you can’t do with kids around. Enjoy them! Sleep in past 6 am, take a long bath, or even spend a few hours at the hotel spa. You’re on vacation. Act like it!
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Bring back a fun gift
If you’re really feeling guilty, give the kids a fond memory of your trip by bringing them something fun. On my last trip, I snuck away for a few minutes and picked up a shirt I knew my daughter had wanted, and she was thrilled to get it upon my return. She was happy to see me and to know that when mama goes away, it means something fun will come her way.
Travelling without your kids can mean some longing for your babies — but do what you can to enjoy your time alone. Soon enough you’ll be back in the thick of parenting once again!
